We’ve finally got to the point in history when diamond rings for men are the trend. More and more people start believing the designers and fashion experts who’ve been working for decades and even generations to prove that there shouldn’t be any specific reasons except fashion for men to wear rings.
But majority keenly seeks secret hidden meanings in the simplest facts, and if there aren’t any they’re delighted to invent some. Demand creates supply, so people may choose any symbolism they prefer for their rings. If you want your diamond ring to be placed on a finger with some sacred meaning, we may provide you few ideas to pick from.
Let’s start with the more exotic Indian philosophy. It is believed that every finger has the special connection with a certain Hindu god. Thereby, thumb refers to Tejas, embodiment of fire; index finger has a special relation to Vayu, who rules over wind; middle finger shares some bonds with Akasha, who’s responsible for sky and space; ring finger is referred to Prithvi, who’s in charge of earth; pinky is associated with Jaladurga, symbolizing water. So, if those explanations for the choice of the place to wear the diamond ring resonate with you, use them well.
If you prefer some more classic antiquity comparisons, we have them, too. A thumb has connections to Mars, the god of war; index finger refers to Jupiter, the king of gods, who rules over skies and thunder; middle finger is associated with Saturn; ring finger is referred to Apollo, god of truth and devotion, music and poetry, healing; pinky is connected to Mercury, cunning god of commerce, finance and communication.
Are your relations to gods not of interest to you? Then you may like some associations with personality traits. It is said that people who opt for a thumb to wear their ring on are generally self-asserted, possess strong will and freedom of thought; men who go for index finger are known as unapologetic, confident, they love power and authority, and possess leader qualities; guys that prefer middle finger are known for their love for order and balance, they have the abilities for self-analysis and strong individuality; people choosing the ring finger are devoted personalities, who are creative, with a sharp sense of beauty; men wearing their rings on a pinky finger are believed to be cunning and smart, their intellectual potential is great, and their eloquence skills are on maximum, but they are also great listeners.
Frankly speaking, we are more than sure that men’s diamond rings don’t require any meaning and explanation to wear. They’re the high-end jewelry that has the only clear message behind them: the owner possesses exclusive taste and financial ability to treat himself to such jewelry.
But there are some practical reasons to wear a diamond ring on a specific finger which have reasonable explanations and refer either to style or to comfort.
So, the thumb is not a very popular choice for the ring yet, but the preferences slowly change. Men start to realize that this finger is rather comfortable to wear a ring on. First, the thumb is strong and is able to handle heavy massive rings. Second, it is large enough to balance the look of some bulky jewelry items. Third, the place of a thumb ensures that your diamond ring is safe from the scratches it could’ve got from the neighboring ring, and it doesn’t get in the way with the routine actions even worn on the active hand. There is a certain message the ring on a thumb can send to the society. Some people consider this finger a symbol of strong friendship, so the gift from a friend or a ring that reminds of your friendship may be worn here as an option.
The index finger is a common choice to wear a nice statement diamond ring. It comes from a tradition to wear rather perceptible rings on this finger to show your status, privileges, fraternal links or family relations. The practical reasons to wear a ring here are the look and the location. A pointer, especially on the active hand is the most noticeable finger, frequently used during the conversation in gestures, so there are no chances that a ring with diamonds will be left without attention. You’re going to be surprised how often it’ll become a conversation starter. The ring on the index finger won’t get in the way with the engagement ring, on the contrary it’ll create great balance. As we already mentioned, pointer is a frequent choice for fraternal, college or club rings, some of which may even demand to use no other place for their rings. That’s why using the index finger to wear your diamond ring be ready for questions about your activities or club affiliations.
Probably the safest place for the ring that’ll get the least questions is the middle finger. Though it is not very popular among men. We mentioned above the traits of character of the men choosing rings, and in the case with the middle finger it’s hard not to agree. The rings for this finger are often selected by the guys who like balance and order. They pick items that are not flashy and massive, and frequently not those made of gold. It is said that the best option for the middle finger is gray metal. Some seek connections with Saturn and its association with lead, others notice that people who wear rings on the middle finger are modest and don’t like tacky jewelry. Another reason to get a rather modest ring for this finger is its possible neighbor with the engagement or wedding ring. In order not to damage both these rings it’s better to consider the simple designs. No matter what the reason is, we agree that a simple but elegant platinum or stainless steel ring with diamonds will look incredibly nice on the middle finger. Normally, it doesn’t send any messages except for one case. If the ring is black, and it is worn on the middle finger of the right hand it may have a name of the “Ace ring” and mean that a person wearing it refers himself to the asexual community.
The ring finger is the loudest one of all. The diamond ring on the men’s left hand is clear, call it if you wish, “red flag”. It’s needless to say that it shows his marital status. But what’s with the men wearing rings on their right ring finger? Sometimes it may mean he’s married, which is a common practice in some cultures and countries. In other cases, it may indicate he’s engaged. Other assumptions may include the promise ring, which is neither engagement, nor wedding, but still shows he’s off market. Sometimes divorced men or widowers may wear a ring on the right ring finger as a memento of their spouse. The thing is, that most often the ring finger is associated with romantic relationships, no matter what hand is chosen. You probably already know the popular tale of the artery that connects this finger with the heart. Of course, this finger may be decided upon solely out of fashion motives, but be prepared that it may cause misunderstanding.
The pinky finger is rather popular for men’s diamond statement rings. Its position provides a good chance to observe the jewelry. As this finger is not very active, the ring won’t interfere much or cause some inconveniences during daily activities. It is located close to the wedding ring, so the design of the jewelry shouldn’t be overcomplicated. The ring may possess some massiveness, but with the consideration of the finger’s size itself. It should be massive enough for the pinky, not just for every finger! Usually, it doesn’t send any messages, but may trigger some “Mafioso” jokes.
In order to polish your look to perfection, you’d better remember to match your jewelry in color, metals, style and quantity. Gold watch or a bracelet should harmonize with the rings of the same color to create a stylish look. The best quantity of rings is considered to be three on both hands. If you wear a watch or a bracelet, put one ring on this hand and two others on the opposite to balance the image. The best way to highlight your diamond ring is to choose other jewelry with the diamonds as well, or opt for the pieces with no gems at all. And the trendy look is done!
